tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post4239588713629433340..comments2014-05-21T16:19:32.755-07:00Comments on Bob's story: The tripBOB PETHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444207026880666449noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-72271151453820521592014-05-07T23:11:57.572-07:002014-05-07T23:11:57.572-07:00Uncle Bob,
I was blessed to have met your family b...Uncle Bob,<br />I was blessed to have met your family back in 2011. I love them dearly!! I have enjoyed hearing updates and stories of you over the years. It is so heart warming to read about all the lives you have touched. I have enjoyed seeing you at family events over the years. I wish I could have gotten to know you more personally, but distance plays a role in that. I have been thinking of you everyday and enjoy seeing pictures and updates on your moms page:) <br />Sending you lots of LOVE, HUGS & PRAYERS!! <br /><3 Chantelle Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14120507109671381002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-60355636415028290322014-05-07T23:07:36.293-07:002014-05-07T23:07:36.293-07:00Bobo,
I remember when we were in the academy toget...Bobo,<br />I remember when we were in the academy together and you came out. You were so sweet and cute about it. That was the start to our friendship and becoming hero's in blue. You were there when I needed a shoulder and it was always fun hanging out with you at work and outside of work. I have followed your exploits over the years since leaving Seattle, which have given me smiles and laughter. It is great reading all the comments on here and seeing the support you and Aaron have. Chris and I are sending love to you, Aaron your families as well as your extended family in blue. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05319124190154960863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-741155204995619612014-05-07T18:52:00.456-07:002014-05-07T18:52:00.456-07:00Hey Bobby, I'm so glad I got to spend a few mi...Hey Bobby, I'm so glad I got to spend a few minutes with you today. You were sleeping soundly but I squeezed your hand and you squeezed back. Over the past 15+ years I've always felt like I was one of the cool kids because I had a friend who was a cop. A gay cop, even! Even though our social interactions have been less frequent the past few years, whenever we'd run into you and Aaron it is always like we just saw you last week. Your warmth, wit, smile and laugh make people like you immediately. That's so evident by the outpouring of comments and stories on this blog. I have always appreciated how quick you were to come to the aid (of all kinds) of your friends, even when they did dumb things. You were always Help First, Counsel Later. It was comforting (in a back of the mind kind of way) to know that I had your phone number in my cell phone....just in case. Your hand was so warm today, just like your heart has always been. Tony and I are sending you and Aaron much love, comfort and peace. Big Hugs, Steve GunnAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17215047227848529540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-81156505358382131432014-05-07T17:58:40.628-07:002014-05-07T17:58:40.628-07:00Dear Cousin Bobby,
I've been lucky to have gr...Dear Cousin Bobby, <br />I've been lucky to have grown up with you. I remember very well us as kids, hanging out on your farm with all the folks and grandparents. Fondest memories are of watching the slide shows and you in one picture wearing your mom's high heels, and you were naked looking back at the camera. Cute buns, kid! I didn't see much of you once we hit adulthood but always was kept in the loop via your mom. You took good care of the treasured Regulator clock you inherited (though I was jealous!) I am glad you loved it like I would have. Thank you for being so good to Grandma & Grampa. They LOVED YOU so much! Grandma talked a lot about your visits and how much she enjoyed them. She will be waiting for you with arms open wide at the white picket fence that is "Heaven"... Bobby, I love you. You are family, and Aaron is family. I'm so glad you found happiness with him. My only regret is not getting to see you in all these last years. Rest easy, and feel my love with you. <br /><br />Love, <br />KristyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05855710724978694866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-27469664185776581752014-05-07T17:31:46.820-07:002014-05-07T17:31:46.820-07:00Bob! I've always enjoyed running into you and ...Bob! I've always enjoyed running into you and Aaron around town; chatting at the grocery, or video store, or just on the hill. I knew you guys were good people, before I really had even talked to you that much. Your wedding photo touched, and will continue to touch thousands of friends and strangers alike! It had that Time-Life- Sailor-Kissing-Woman iconic feel from the moment it was taken. I was so proud to see you guys in the paper and proud to call you a friend. Thank you for always being so kind! <br />Much, much love and light!<br />xoxo<br />Love, Andrea ZolloUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18295572575766189884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-23630561590390706302014-05-07T14:10:50.317-07:002014-05-07T14:10:50.317-07:00One of my best memories is of the time you showed ...One of my best memories is of the time you showed up unannounced at our apartment. You kidnapped Lisa and me and took us to a playground, so you could take pictures of us. Lisa and I love you, Bob.<br />If we are all just walking each other home, it has been my great honor and privilege to walk a few steps with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-46147558572837902792014-05-07T12:02:01.279-07:002014-05-07T12:02:01.279-07:00When I first met you Officer Bob (I don't thin...When I first met you Officer Bob (I don't think I ever called you just Bob) I remember you being the first police officer I had ever met. I remember sharing stories about those crazy Seattle U kids but also enjoying music and drinking whiskey gingers at the Bus Stop. It's been a while since I have been back in Seattle but I have been fortunate to follow both you and Aaron on Facebook. You all are in my thoughts and prayers miles away here in Chicago. Nekesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05893912770887257779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-35556900546035552752014-05-07T10:27:42.837-07:002014-05-07T10:27:42.837-07:00Bob, here's another one from the late night cr...Bob, here's another one from the late night crew. Earlier posts cited your twisted sense of humor and being a smart-ass. Those are two of the many things that made working with you an absolute blast. The words, "Press hard, you're making four copies." spoken through clenched teeth and a forced smile, will always be in my mind when dealing with a tough customer. Thank you for this sanity maintenance tool. Peace and good memories. -CHellatine Dictionaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02635113492879598087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-8387136290086908382014-05-07T09:02:29.280-07:002014-05-07T09:02:29.280-07:00Bob, its Ray, your former roommate. This is one of...Bob, its Ray, your former roommate. This is one of those situations where I wish I kept in touch through the years. And for that I apologize. I wasn’t sure if you moved to another state. Do you remember the two bedroom apartment with the two sunken living rooms, we shared? It was a sweet apartment, wasn’t it? Believe it or not, we moved 6 times and in circles. I am now, only like, three blocks from that same apartment. And that apartment have not changed. Not from the exterior of it anyways. Just ask Dan. He lived there for about a year.<br />There was this time when me and a friend were walking to Starbucks early one morning. All of a sudden I hear my full name called out though the loud speaker. I looked around to see who it was. Then this police car drives by and stopped close to us. I tried to see who it was. The window rolled down and in I’m like WTH? We weren’t jay walking or anything. It was you, Bob. You so freaked us out. It was so hilarious. I couldn’t wait to get back to the office and tell everyone. My friend was telling them I was being arrested on the street.<br />I’m praying for you and your family, Bob.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10396149338034400777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-62460679017820541372014-05-07T06:24:38.618-07:002014-05-07T06:24:38.618-07:00seems like just the other day you and Joe were pla...seems like just the other day you and Joe were playing under the big Maple tree at Mt. Vernon rodeo grounds, while we all roped. That my friend is a photo stuck in my mind. As for you and all your loved ones my family shall keep you all in our prayersAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07424969733911614324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-59950649431257778302014-05-06T23:45:46.540-07:002014-05-06T23:45:46.540-07:00Bob your oregon family is thinking of you. Proud t...Bob your oregon family is thinking of you. Proud to see all the lives you have touched. Uncle Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01117191429509223420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-70187894412504334152014-05-06T22:19:30.755-07:002014-05-06T22:19:30.755-07:00Bob you are one of the most caring and compassiona...Bob you are one of the most caring and compassionate humans I have ever met. You embraced people from all walks of life and call them friend. As I sat in your hospital room these last two days I am completely overwhelmed by the many people that have come to see you and the love they all have for you. We should all be that blessed. But the best thing about you is how incredibly happy you make my nephew Aaron. I am privileged to have you as a member of my family. You are an inspiration to me . Your compassion,honor and bravery are beyond comparison. I love you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08762652976343223616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-10494231458367859502014-05-06T21:54:41.749-07:002014-05-06T21:54:41.749-07:00I'll always have the vision of you in your pro...I'll always have the vision of you in your proud uniform on your wedding day. You and Aaron are two lucky fellas. Peace + LovePhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09676939559906479908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-55508622644479301012014-05-06T21:13:45.246-07:002014-05-06T21:13:45.246-07:00Bob, you're always a joy to have over, whether...Bob, you're always a joy to have over, whether it's eating at Red Robin, hanging out and watching TV, or getting into a rousing game of Uno or Cards Against Humanity. I'm so happy I could be there to help you and Aaron celebrate your marriage. You laugh easy and are accepting of others, a truly shining star of a person.Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06587185059077536662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-53359647298604305512014-05-06T21:09:26.048-07:002014-05-06T21:09:26.048-07:00Hey, Bob. I have started this so many times, its j...Hey, Bob. I have started this so many times, its just really hard to articulate what you are in my mind, let alone, allow myself to accept this reality we all share. I consider Aaron to be my closest friend, second only to my wife. One of the greatest gifts he has ever given me was a chance to get to know you. Even though we hung out primarily in my neck of the woods, the few times I got to see you in your natural habitat was amazing. It was actually kind of frustrating when we were trying to leave anywhere, because you knew every single cop, street kid, bum, and store owner in the entire area. And you always had time. This, I took for granted, and I understand now, who you really are. You are a leader in society and a staple in the community. I have witnessed the mark you are making and am proud to acknowledge it. My respect for you is without limitation. I do not believe in a higher power, but, if my lack of faith is incorrect, God has some explaining to do. I have found myself extremely angry these days, because I don't understand how this could be your burden when there are so many others that deserve this. Sorry, I do not mean to be negative, its just that all of us are not ready this. If I had a superpower, it would be to control time. That way I could preserve and relive what is precious to me and also sneak a peek at some titties once in while. There, not so negative anymore. <br />Thank you for everything you have shared and given to me. Aaron will never be alone. This is my promise to you, but, only when your gone. And gone you are not! Stay frosty.<br />With all the love in our hearts, Chase and Stephanie Dawson.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16636309990762423556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-36563720914572751952014-05-06T21:08:37.056-07:002014-05-06T21:08:37.056-07:00Loved you Bob from the first time we met. You and ...Loved you Bob from the first time we met. You and Aaron have the type of relationship only most people can dream about and I'm so glad that you are a part of our family. Thank you for all the great stories you've shared during our visits, taking such great pictures of our Winthrop get together, and for just being you. Hali and I love you with all our hearts.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13356519886823589906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-10032704017430625682014-05-06T19:18:32.119-07:002014-05-06T19:18:32.119-07:00I remember the day Aaron joined my team--anxious, ...I remember the day Aaron joined my team--anxious, funny, determined, and a little explosive. I don't think that I understood the massive life change he had made to move to the city and the commitment he had made. He quickly settled in and became part of my perfect little Pike Place Family, a group of people I will cherish to the end of time. Soon after, I met Bob, whom I came to know as the calming force in Aaron's life. Bob...solid, strong, safe. Bob..also...waiting to deliver the next punch line, jab or grin. Bob...also part of that crazy little family. I have quietly watched your love grow, celebrating with each bit of great news and hurting with you as the fight began and continued. We all got married the same year and the great wall crumbled quickly before our eyes. It made little difference for you two Bob and Aaron, as the world already loved you completely. I know I do. My heart is breaking for the two of you and all of us who love and respect you. Your individual personalities combined to create an enduring spirit that has transcended through all whom you have met. I admire you for your love for everyone and for your courage while facing life's toughest battle. Bruce and I will hold you both in our hearts and wish for as much levity and joy as you can tolerate and the comfort and peace you will need. Our hearts and home are always welcome to Aaron when he is ready. I love you both and can't imagine my life not having known you. Godspeed, dear friend. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05951853451352073971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-44010345251736571722014-05-06T18:30:24.579-07:002014-05-06T18:30:24.579-07:00First met you at dad's 80th birthday party and...First met you at dad's 80th birthday party and liked you right away and knew you were the right guy for my nephew Aaron. The fact that you kept telling me you loved my potato salad may have helped. :) You became my nephew that day and always will be. Love you Bob always and forever.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089562270642877325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-10217551620115303782014-05-06T18:21:16.660-07:002014-05-06T18:21:16.660-07:00Maple Bars and Diet Coke.
I met you at my new job...Maple Bars and Diet Coke.<br /><br />I met you at my new job in March 1995. We hit it off and I instantly adored you ...even if I couldn't understand your pickiness about food :-) You were my mentor, coworker, and I didn't know then, my friend for life. Intelligent, creative, talented, thoughtful with a heart to match your stature. You've stuck with me even when I do stupid things and whether you know it or not, you've taught me so much about integrity and strength. I have more but I keep coming back to maple bars and diet coke Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11924103415178709671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-27212290872130350592014-05-06T17:54:29.350-07:002014-05-06T17:54:29.350-07:00Bob and Aaron,
So many memories I have of you two....Bob and Aaron,<br />So many memories I have of you two. Everything from getting cray every 80's night with a bunch of twenty somethings on a weekly basis, having wonderful in depth discussions with Bob while Aaron spinned at Bus Stop, To fixing up the garden at your house when Bob knew I was strapped for cash and needed some help. You two have truly always brought a smile to my face. Bob was always the first to give me an enthusiastic "Hello!" every time I ran into him. No matter how busy and crazy life got, he was always the first to ask how you were doing and gave you his full attention without fail. Bob is always ready to impart his perspective and his wicked sense of humor. (You have a great laugh too Bob, one of the best.) So many happy memories I have with you two in them, I feel honored I get to take those with me the rest of my days. Love you guys. -HAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05956454818371813997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-90311682735721663852014-05-06T17:05:26.921-07:002014-05-06T17:05:26.921-07:00Bob,
You have such an amazing and positive impact...Bob, <br />You have such an amazing and positive impact not only for our work family but, for our whole community. You always appear when we need you the most, turning tired and frustrated faces into a room of smiles. You touch us with humor, photography, making us look at the world in a different light and greater appreciation. I truly can say you are loved tremendously but, we are the ones blessed to have you in our lives. Love Jamie McMurray <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10956727079106627456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-87776760784106805682014-05-06T17:04:40.916-07:002014-05-06T17:04:40.916-07:00Many years ago, Todd and I met a young, 21 year ol...Many years ago, Todd and I met a young, 21 year old man who was completely in the closet in a small town, and knew very few gay men. We became very close, and over the year or so he hung with us, Aaron came out to his mother, and eventually to everyone. When he began to date, Todd and I were very critical of his choices, as we love him very much. When he came home to say he was feeling very serious about a particular man, we interrogated him on all details about this new guy…what does he do, how stable is he, etc. All feelings of apprehension and concern melted when we met Officer Bob. And while Aaron left this small town to start a new life with you, I knew our love for Aaron was going to be honored, and that he was in the best hands possible. I have been so honored to have traveled with you to Hawaii and Europe, and no more so than when you and Aaron invited us to return to Hawaii to celebrate your marriage. And over these many years, I (and I speak for Todd as well) have grown to love you, not just as the man Aaron chose as his mate, but as a man I fully respect, admire, and have inspired me to be better myself. You have given the world so much and touched so many lives (many of whom I’m sure you will never realize). I never use this word, but for some reason I am going to now; the world is blessed thanks to Bob Peth.Stephen Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07884494227832003497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-37228713331809777742014-05-06T16:58:21.829-07:002014-05-06T16:58:21.829-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Stephen Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07884494227832003497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-35806777852685334942014-05-06T16:55:04.399-07:002014-05-06T16:55:04.399-07:00Bob, I have such fond memories of all of the crazy...Bob, I have such fond memories of all of the crazy nights at the Bus Stop and with the Bus Stop family and hanging out with you, Aaron, Dom, Jacob & Andrew last summer for fun barbecues and overall debauchery. You are truly one of the most delightful people I've ever met. All my love and support to you and Aaron. XOXOXOXO - CandiceAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01519117306846751248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8455238235851254636.post-11182350219505898102014-05-06T16:38:22.569-07:002014-05-06T16:38:22.569-07:00Bob, I am taken - as so many others are - by both ...Bob, I am taken - as so many others are - by both your creativity and your compassion. Sharing your own awesome photos and Cornish art projects was always a bright spot in my day. I love that you always tackle a problem by thinking outside the box and bringing in people with different viewpoints. Seriously, you are one of the good ones. Sending much love to you and your family. - Shanna Christie Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17243241183693192020noreply@blogger.com